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little Happy Meeting - v. 6 (1)
conceive, devise, create!

Hello Rembrandt,
We can’t escape boredom (‘tis ubiquitous). That slippery little fella creeps up on us, no matter how hard we try to avoid it. The good news is that moments of boredom allow our creative energy to flow — and this is good for the soul (research shows creative expression is tied to happiness and well-being). Creativity doesn’t need to result in a masterpiece. It can be any expression, formal or informal — like crafting, dancing, journaling, gardening, collecting, mine-crafting, joke telling, and music playing.
Life in neutral
Spending idle time staring at the wall may be fine for a bit, but the benefits of conceiving, devising, and creating may have you swapping your TV remote for a paintbrush. Check them out! Creativity:
sharpens your mind,
Boosts your mood,
improves your self-esteem and optimism,
relieves stress and anxiety,
gets you moving, and
many forms will boost your immune system.
For what it’s worth
When I was 7 or 8, I sewed (poorly, I might add) a cloth bunny, along with my two older sisters. At the grand reveal, my family rightfully applauded my sisters’ attempts. Mine, however, was met with hysterical laughter. In a bit of a dramatic turn, I ripped the bunny’s head clean of its body.
I have since sought alternative outlets for creative expression, and have found many. I also made it a priority to teach my children the importance of developing a creative mind.
My oldest son gardens, my daughter dances, and my youngest son programs and plays video games; and all three write. They found creative outlets in their lives, and fewer things make me happier:)
Creative Caveats
Creativity can be anything, big or small, goal-oriented or personal. One model describes creativity as existing on a continuum — from mini-c (personally meaningful) and little-c (everyday creative) to pro-c (professional creative) and big-c (eminently creative).
All types have positive implications, but personally meaningful and everyday creative (like making your own greeting cards) may have the biggest impact.
Creativity is not a finite set of things (see big Al’s quote below); many things qualify as creative endeavors.
You have to lose your fear of being awkward, wrong, or odd.
“Creativity is seeing what others see and thinking what no one else ever thought.”
Happy Task Number 6
Let us create!
Some suggestions big and small. Try them once, try them all. (Poet? Or don’t quit my day job?)
Change the Scenery. Looking for a new solution to a problem? Try working in a new space, rearrange your desk, or even take a walk somewhere unfamiliar to break the routine.
Invent a new recipe using your favorite ingredients (mashed potatoes, M&Ms, and brownies, hmmm?)
Use your beautiful voice to sing a song that makes you happy (maybe even write your own verse). Need inspiration?
Try mind mapping: Start with a central idea and branch out. The structure of a mind map can help you make new connections and uncover ideas you might not have thought of initially. You might start with ‘student engagement strategies’ and branch out to the Drake and Kendrick Lamar feud.
Use the “what if” game: Ask “What if?” about everything around you. For example, “What if humans could fly?” or “What if we lived underwater?” This kind of thinking challenges assumptions and opens up creative possibilities.
Embrace your inner thespian and read your e- or snail mail in a dramatic voice (maybe a Darth Vadar-esque reading of your water bill or a Dolly Parton drawl announcing a pizza coupon).
Create a new yoga move (maybe a variation of my sig’s favorite, Shavasana).
Play a creative game. Play Minecraft, Planet Coaster, Scribblenauts, or any video game that allows you to express your creative self (being a kid is not a prerequisite).
Write a story based on produce. “I do not carrot all. You cannot turnip anytime you’re lonely.” (I have to credit my sister for this inspiration.)
Limit Yourself: Surprisingly, limitations can spark creativity. Create with a restricted set of materials or under specific constraints (e.g., only using one color or writing a story without the letter “e”).
Idle Time Wasters. It’s okay to be idle (in moderation!). In those in-between times — when you don’t have the energy or desire to create, try this: Set your timer and waste 15 minutes on this weirdly addictive cat site (don’t go over, but forgive yourself if you do). Don’t like cats? Try the long dog.
To do: 1. Create 2. Reflect: Think about how it felt during and after. If you’re truly engaged, it’ll likely feel as if time stands still (or you’re experiencing flow:)).
Come back next week for another little happy task.
Creativity makes us happy and happiness (and well-being) makes us want to create. A big ole Win-Win! (See Science Bit — also mentioned earlier).
About the Author
Rebecca Malatesta, PhD, is an Industrial and Organizational Psychologist who teaches psychology at Oakland University, located in Rochester, Michigan. A major source of her happiness is her three adult children (Sam, Isabella, and Joe), her boyfriend, a wanna be Jackie Daytona (regular human bartender), her friends and family, and the queen of her household, Babs.